this is for all those people who were thr standing by my side wen i needed them………………….for them who told me that its ok to fall down but its even more imporatnt to stand up , dust urself and say life moves on and i can do it…………..its for all those people who held faith in me wen i doubted my capabilities……………………for them who were thr to wipe my tears and tell me that this too shall pass………………….for them who told me how special i was too them wen i thought that my worth is nil …………………..words are not enf to express as to how blessed i fel to have all these people………………….thank u guys …………….thanx for being thr……………….

in the span of 5 years our country spends approximately 855 crores on our so called responible politicians……….and for what ???????these politicians ask our ceo’s to cut their salaries………not only that so much money if spend on the welfare of people of our country it can solve most of their problem not only that but also improove our ranking in a lot of ways……….we are a really young country ruled (won’t say adminstered b’coz that word is not even applicable in our country )by really old people ………….ironical isnt it…………..

almost 3/4 of the elections are over ………..we are about to step in the last phase of elections………….so much has been done to motivate people to vote or so is being said…….teleseries have come………politicians are urging (well when do they not,and why should they not after all this is the only time when they realize the public’s importance ),the famous” jago re” camapaign has been doing rounds………..our so called youth is rising from the deep slumber……….people are becoming more aware or so is being said and is being published everywhere……just one question though……………how come after so much the voter turnout has decreased from  53%in 2004 to a 50%in 2009……..3% when converted into actual numbers is a lot of people ……….

are we coming out of the deep slumber or are we going even deeper into it…………………

its weird ……………wenever any problem comes upon us we forget to rationalize……y???????i mean its easy wen it is sum1 else ………well the normal ans to this wud be…..cumon its not rocket science……we love ourselves so cannot give a detached opinion whereas wen it is sumone else it is the easiest thing to do……..but tecnically speaking we love ourselves the most so that way we shud be able to give the best opinion to ourselves then howcum we are not able to detach ourselves from ourselves and have a bird eye’s view and give the best opinion ……………maybe because innately we are in a habbit of being slightly more gentle on ourselves than on sumone else………………..wen sumbody does sumthing to us we typically freak out and seldome forgive the other person even if the person is our closest frnd /buddy…….we might be able to move on but we never forgive………..contrary to that wen we do that we are able to forgive ouselves for the harshest mistakes and are able to find the ans to as to why we shud forgive ourselves………………..similarly……..wen we do sumthnig for sum1 we remember that for the rest of our lives but wen sum1 else is nice to us and does one thing wrong we are ready to forget that moment of kindness and compassion in a matter of a sec…………….exactly how selfish are we????????????????????

BEFORE I GET INTO COMPARING PROACTIVITY OR REACTIVITY…………………LETS UNDERSTAND WHAT BOTH OF THEM MEAN………………WHILE PROACTIVITY IS A POSITIVE TERM REACTIVITY IS A RELATIVELY NAGATIVE TERM(RELATIVELY AND NOT ABSOLUTELY…………)

PROACTIVITY………IF WE BREAK UP THE WORD ITSELF WE GET TWO WORDS………..PRO -ACTIVITY…………PRO WHICH MEANS BEFORE AND ACTIVITY I’M SURE ALL OF US ARE WELL VERSED WITH……………REACTIVITY ON THE OTHER HAND WILL SPLITT INTO RE AND ACTIVITY WCHICH MEANS AFTER AN ACTIVITY………………THE COMPARISON BETWEEN THE ABOVE TWO TERMS IS LIKE PREVENTION AND CURE……..

PROACTIVITY-IT MEANS MORE THAN JUST MERELY TAKING AN INITIATIVE……..IT MEANS THAT WE AS HUMAN BEINGS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR ACTIONS……………THAT WE HAVE THE POWER TO CHOOSE OUR ACTIONS……………IT MEANS TO ACT RATHER THAN ACTED UPON…………….IT MEANS BEING ABLE TO RESPOND IN AN EFFECTIVE MANNER…….

REACTIVITY…………LETS SEE ………SLIGHTLY ON NEGATIVE TERMS…….IT MEAS THAT WE HAVE BEEN HANDEDOVER SCRIPTS BY PEOPLE,SOCIETY AND OUR CIRCUMSTANCES AND ALL THAT WE DO IS ENACT IT OUT………….ALL THAT WE DO IS BE ACTED UPON AND BLAME IT ALL ON OUR CIRCUMSTANCES………………….

ITS ACTUALLY VERY EASY TO ANALYSE WETHER WE ARE PROACTIVE OR REACTIVE……BECAUSE ONLY WHEN WE KNOW WHO WE ARE CAN WE DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT………MORE OFTEN THAN  NOT BEING PROACTIVE IS FAR MORE FRUITFUL (NOT ONY PROFFESIONALLY BUT ALSO PERSONALLY) AND SATISFYING

LOOK OUT FOR THESE WORDS IN UR CONVERSATION AND U’LL COME TO KNOW WETHER U ARE PROCTIVE AND RECATIVE…………..I TRIED IT OUT AND FOUND OUT MYSELF TO BE PEACTIVE AND I’M WORKING ON IT………………ITS SOMEHOW VERY SATISFYING………….

                                                                                           

PROACTIVE …LETS LOOK AT OUR ALTERNATIVES   …     REACTIVE   ….  THERE’S NOTHING I CAN DO

PROACTIVE I CAN CHOOSE A DIFFRENT APPROACH     REACTIVE  ………THATS JUST THE WAY I AM

PROACTIVE I CONTROLL MY OWN FEELINGS   …   REACTIVE ……              HE MAKES ME SO MAD

PROACTIVEI CAN CREATE AN EFFCETIVE PRESENTATION…  REACTIVE ..   THEY WONT ALLOW THAT

PROACTIVEI WILL CHOOSE AN APPROPRIATE RESPONSE …. REACTIVE ..           I HAVE TO DO THAT

PROACTIVEI CHOOSE                          …. REACTIVE                                                      I CAN’T

PROACTIVE I PREFER                                 …. REACTIVE                                                 I MUST

PROACTIVE I WILL                            …. REACTIVE                                                          IF ONLY

LETS ALL ANLYSE OURSELVES ANDF FIND OUT WHO WE ARE………………..AND PROMISE OURSELVES THAT FOR THE SAKE OF OURSELVES ,WE’LL CHANGE SUMTHING (OUR REACTIVE NATURE TO A PROACTIVE ONE)   THAT WILL NOT ONLY CONTE=RIBUT TO A MORE HAPPY AND CONTEND LIFE BUT TO A MORE SUCESSFUL ON TOO………….

HAPPY ANALYSING…………………TAKE CARE ALL OF YOU…………………..HAPPY BLOGGING

 

 

 

 

 

 

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